I really do mean bad actors. There are people who use criticism to mask harassment, which is why I wouldn't say it was rejection criticism that is a different dynamic.
For example, I was criticized for not making a cellphone friendly version of my person website when the person criticizing me had other close friends that didn't have mobile phone friendly websites so they were just being hypocritical, passive aggressive and nitpicky. I thought that person was rude for just singling me out, I did not update my personal website in a year. XD
That is a good quote so I will try to remember it. I mean, there is physical fitness and mental fitness and I really have to learn to not accept unwelcome critiques from people anymore.
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Date: 2026-01-20 12:43 am (UTC)For example, I was criticized for not making a cellphone friendly version of my person website when the person criticizing me had other close friends that didn't have mobile phone friendly websites so they were just being hypocritical, passive aggressive and nitpicky. I thought that person was rude for just singling me out, I did not update my personal website in a year. XD
That is a good quote so I will try to remember it. I mean, there is physical fitness and mental fitness and I really have to learn to not accept unwelcome critiques from people anymore.